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Do EVERYTHING. Be great. Screw decisiveness. Change your mind.

Strong!First, they say, “Pick a sport.”

Then they say, “Pick a major.”

Then it’s,”Pick a career path.”

Followed by, “Pick a job.”

Pick Pick Pick.

Choose Choose Choose.

Option A or Option B?

Paper or Plastic?

Fries or No Fries?

Our world is set up to pigeon-hole us. Everyone feels better when they know which slot to put you in in their mind. As a business owner, we hear, “Niche-ify.” “Find your ONE area of expertise.” Focus on the ONE thing you’re great at.”

But here’s the thing: Are any of us really only great at ONE thing?

I know I’m not.

I’m great at all kinds of things, good at a bunch, and I’m passionate about even more. 

I spent years trying to make a decision about how to focus on one thing. The problem was, I always felt like, by deciding on one thing, it meant I could no longer pursue all the other things.

So I got paralyzed.

For a LONG time.

I was totally stunted by indecision.

Then one day I woke up and realized that paralysis didn’t suit me.

Instead of doing one thing, I would just do everything.

That was when my world changed.

That was when I realized that everything was better than nothing.

That was when I stopped deciding and started searching for a way in:

to the life I wanted.

to the business I had dreamed of.

to the possibilities that I knew were out there.

I finally ‘got’ Twitter.

I finally understood the internet and what it makes possible – not just for me, but for everyone. 

I finally stopped defining myself as being too cynical and smart to bother with anything everyone else thinks is interesting.

I got out of my own way.

I would do it all.

But doing it all is way harder than it sounds. It requires WAY more discipline than I ever thought I was capable of, but I was determined.

So I went on a bit of a voyage. I searched. I learned. I discovered systems and tools and magical secrets {Yup. Fairy dust IS required. Pointy hat is optional.} to help me focus so that I could seamlessly hop from art to business to consulting to travel to playtime to partnership to teacher to designer to whatever-else-I-decided-to-be.

I gave myself permission to be everything I had ever wanted to be. I was going to do it everything.

I have never looked back.

Today, I do what I want and I do it well. When I start something new, I make a choice:

Love it. Learn It. Or pay someone else to do it.

I hold a general belief that if it can be done, I can do it {I’m often wrong on that, by the way, but I don’t let that slow me down}.

For example, when I started Makeness I did my own web design because I wanted to learn it. For a long time, I reeeealy sucked at it. But then it got better… and better… and better. Turns out, now I love it. And I’m told I’m pretty good at it. Beyond that, it’s now a fabulous little income stream. I take projects when I want to flex my graphics muscles, and do other stuff when I don’t.

So now I’m ready to share.

I want to teach other people what I know so that you can blossom into the multi-faceted bad ass you were always meant to be.

Last week, I gave you a little teaser about the new course that I will be offering soon called The Focus Maker. The people on the list have already gotten some kick-ass free pre-work.

Below, you’ll find a final sign-up sheet to be the first notified when the shopping cart opens. This will be your last opportunity to get in on the early goodies and the after-party bonuses that will be available ONLY to those that are on the pre-release list. The after-party bonuses will include some one-on-one time with me, so the pre-list has very limited space. As of writing this there are eleven {Update: 10/7/11} spots left. I will take the signup form down as soon as they fill up.

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